What I decide will have a effect on my children.

  What I do with my life has such a huge effect on my children.  No matter what I choose to do weather it is good or bad it still affects them.  Every time I make a decision even if it is the smallest one it still affects them.  If I spend money then it might be needed for something that they want.  If I decide to break up with my boyfriend they are affected too. Why is life so hard sometimes.  Do I stay and stop them from having to adjust to yet another person, or should I leave the relationship and try to stay alone and then they have to adjust to not having that person in their life.  No matter what I decide it will still have a impact on them.